Caleb Visa Run to Bangkok 2023

In August, Caleb’s US Passport was issued and he was officially acknowledged as a US citizen. However, technically, Caleb was in Cambodia illegally because he is a foreign national without a Cambodian visa. As is in the case in many countries, Cambodian visas can only be renewed – not issued – inside the country. So…

No Longer Undocumented.

Caleb is no longer an undocumented person!  After many weeks, visits, reminders and some financial incentive, the local authority has issued his birth certificate in Khmer language and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs has translated it into English! Next stop – the US Embassy for passport and Certificate of Birth Abroad.  I just submitted not only applications…

Maternity Leave and Orientation

Orienting new international workers is my favorite part of our role as Reps. Yes, its very busy with many trainings and logistics, but the energy they bring to our team is infectious, as is the joy of the national staff when they see, again, that international people really do want to come to Cambodia. As…

A Tuesday in May

It’s 3:30 in the morning and he’s cooing at the diaper changing table nightlight.  After babbling to it for a few minutes he bursts out in his biggest smile – the one he usually saves for when Charles is wearing glasses.  I’m not sure if its the delight of the shadows or a purely internal…

Hot Season with a Newborn

Caleb was born during an atypical hot season week, with cool breezes and 80 degree days.  In Cambodian tradition, we were actually able to dress him head to toe in cozy clothes.  This not only allowed us to sidestep the constant unsolicited advice from all Cambodians that he needs to be covered all the time,…

Mearda Maternity Clinic and Susu Birthing

In the past, MCC Cambodia parents who were expecting a new child would travel to Thailand and deliver the baby there. I hadn’t thought about it until some MCC alumni asked and we realized that Caleb is likely the first “MCC baby” to be born in Cambodia. I asked Pou Cheang and Ming Ramy, who…

One Week of Caleb Daniel

Even when we lived in Pennsylvania we were far from most of our family. So, for Charlotte and Catherine, I did weekly Google photo albums up to 52 weeks. Then, since we already had the photos all together, I printed a photobook for the girls and the grandparents. I thought about sharing the weekly albums…

Introducing The Fifth C

This evening at 10:21 PM (Cambodia time) Caleb Daniel Conklin was born. At birth, he weighed 4 kg (8.8 lbs) and is 55 cm (21.6 in) tall. I’ll write a detailed account of the experience later. But it was short, intense, and painful labor and delivery. Crystal has some minor tearing but is doing well….

Almost time for the Baby

Last night Crystal started having intense contractions – distinct from the usual braxton hicks contractions – and we thought it was time. So we quickly prepared everything, borrowed the MCC truck, and loaded up to leave. We were worried because Crystal and I still have this respiratory infection. Labor is hard enough when you can…

Respiratory Infection at Nine Months

Two weeks ago, Charlotte came down with a respiratory infection. It isn’t COVID-19, we had that back in December, but rather a more mundane illness. Actually, the December bout of COVID-19, which we suspect was the third time we had it, was milder than this respiratory illness. Charlotte is feeling better now. Unfortunately, she shared…